5. You make a man the center of your world.
All of the great stuff that comes along with relationship is wonderful.
If you give up your dreams, hobbies, and passions to spend more time with a man, eventually you will feel the pain of losing yourself. He will notice that your emotional world revolves around him — and this is too much responsibility for anyone.
Sooner or later, resentment will bloom and damage your relationship.
You don’t have to sell out for love, quite the opposite. Hold strong to what you really like. If there is one big, fat, major regret I have about my failed relationships, it’s the times I compromised on what I love for a love.
Never make a man your hobby, your dream or your goal. It will hurt you in ways you can’t even imagine right now. There is nothing more attractive than the way someone’s eyes light up when they’re talking about their individual passions. Never compromise that for anyone.
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