6. You hold undercover negative beliefs about men.
Sneaky negativity about men is a huge reason why men are turned off by women who they would otherwise find really attractive.
If you’ve gotten your heart broken a few times and/or had a shaky relationship with your father, it can be difficult to trust and understand men. This leads to the excruciating, catch-22 position of wanting to attract a good man but not really believing that it’s possible.
If you think that all men want is sex or that they can’t stay faithful, you will manifest exactly those situations! Liking men is essential to attracting a good man and keeping him long-term. Men can sense when you don’t trust them, and it kills all attraction to you.
How do you like men when you have been hurt?
Start noticing all of the times when men do things you appreciate. Keep in mind that guys are just individuals, like members of any other group. Some are bad news and some are wonderful — like women.
Do your best to stop generalizing. It will do wonders for the quality of men you attract into your life.
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