#2 Acknowledge her feelings. What I have found with most guys is that instead of just acknowledging their girlfriend’s feelings, saying sorry, and moving on, they instead spend a whole lot of time trying to convince their girlfriends that they aren’t right in feeling the way they do. Instead of just saying “I am sorry if I hurt your feelings,” guys just dismiss them. They tell their girlfriends that they are being ridiculous or wrong for feeling the way they do.
That is a recipe for a huge fight on your hands. If you want to know how to make up with your girlfriend and make the madness stop, simply say you are sorry she feels the way she does. It really doesn’t mean you are sorry for what you did. It just says you feel bad she is hurting. That is all that she wants to hear.
#3 Give her a hug. Although when she is so pissed at you, it seems like she has smoke coming out her ears, if you stop to wrap your arms around her, you will be surprised at how quickly her anger melts away.
Now, I wouldn’t suggest this method if you cheated on her. You might land some serious knee to groin. If it was something simple, make it nonexistent by just showing concern through hugging her.
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