Thinking about leaving: It’s a tricky thing: integrity in love. Love is certainly not black and white. As we get older, we learn what we do and don’t want in a partner. Sometimes, we learn it while in the relationship. You can’t help who you fall in love with, and you can’t help when you meet that person. Sometimes timing is just not right. We all know stories of two people meeting, taking each other from their current relationships, getting married and living happily ever after. It happens. But, should it? If you’re considering leaving your current man for another, consider your reasons for doing so or you may just end up feeling massively guilty, and no happier than you were with the last guy…
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Think on this before you do…
It’s one thing to just fall madly in love with someone while you’re with somebody else. It’s a whole different issue if you’re just terrified of being alone, and the guy you’re leaving your man for could be anyone. If you always line up your next relationship before the one you’re in even ends out of fear of being alone, see a therapist about codependency issues.
Has it been over for a while?
Sometimes, a relationship is still on but you’ve been checked out for months—even years, (i.e. you’re out of love) and for one reason or another haven’t ended it. If that is the case with your current man, and for reasons of comfort or not wanting to hurt him, you haven’t ended it, but then you met someone you fell for, then you probably aren’t the relationship addict described in the previous slide since, in your heart and head, you have been single for a long time. You felt alone and single but you just carried the title of “girlfriend.”
Sometimes, a relationship is still on but you’ve been checked out for months—even years, (i.e. you’re out of love) and for one reason or another haven’t ended it. If that is the case with your current man, and for reasons of comfort or not wanting to hurt him, you haven’t ended it, but then you met someone you fell for, then you probably aren’t the relationship addict described in the previous slide since, in your heart and head, you have been single for a long time. You felt alone and single but you just carried the title of “girlfriend.”
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