Has it been over for a while?
Sometimes, a relationship is still on but you’ve been checked out for months—even years, (i.e. you’re out of love) and for one reason or another haven’t ended it. If that is the case with your current man, and for reasons of comfort or not wanting to hurt him, you haven’t ended it, but then you met someone you fell for, then you probably aren’t the relationship addict described in the previous slide since, in your heart and head, you have been single for a long time. You felt alone and single but you just carried the title of “girlfriend.”
Are you cheating?
It doesn’t matter if you plan on ending your relationship with your current man—nothing justifies cheating. If you’re so certain you will begin a relationship with the new man, then your current one shouldn’t pay the price for your cowardice because you’re too afraid to end it. If you want a new man, you need to pay the price of hurting the current one—but in an honest, straight forward, “we are breaking up” manner.
Has it been over for a while?
Sometimes, a relationship is still on but you’ve been checked out for months—even years, (i.e. you’re out of love) and for one reason or another haven’t ended it. If that is the case with your current man, and for reasons of comfort or not wanting to hurt him, you haven’t ended it, but then you met someone you fell for, then you probably aren’t the relationship addict described in the previous slide since, in your heart and head, you have been single for a long time. You felt alone and single but you just carried the title of “girlfriend.”
Did the new one talk you into it?
Sorry but, no respectable man asks a woman to leave her current man for him. I don’t care how sweet, wonderful and perfect he is for you. He is massively imperfect in an important way if he lacks so much integrity as to consciously step in the way of someone’s relationship.
Has it been over for a while?
Sometimes, a relationship is still on but you’ve been checked out for months—even years, (i.e. you’re out of love) and for one reason or another haven’t ended it. If that is the case with your current man, and for reasons of comfort or not wanting to hurt him, you haven’t ended it, but then you met someone you fell for, then you probably aren’t the relationship addict described in the previous slide since, in your heart and head, you have been single for a long time. You felt alone and single but you just carried the title of “girlfriend.”
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