Are you just insecure?
Everyone is exciting when they are new. Perhaps, your man has become busy with work, or preoccupied with a major stress or tragedy in his life and he isn’t paying as much attention to you as he used to. Or, maybe, you’re just insecure and you need to feel super exciting to someone all the time—something that just fades after a while in a relationship. If that’s the case, then of course you’re going to like the attention of another man—one who you are new and exciting too—and might consider leaving your current one for him. But guess what? The excitement will fade there too. And you need to work on being secure enough to accept that relationships just become more balanced over time—that the mania doesn’t last forever.
Has it been over for a while?
Sometimes, a relationship is still on but you’ve been checked out for months—even years, (i.e. you’re out of love) and for one reason or another haven’t ended it. If that is the case with your current man, and for reasons of comfort or not wanting to hurt him, you haven’t ended it, but then you met someone you fell for, then you probably aren’t the relationship addict described in the previous slide since, in your heart and head, you have been single for a long time. You felt alone and single but you just carried the title of “girlfriend.”
Is your current relationship bad?
Are you fighting a lot? Is someone abusive? If so, your perspective on a new man is jaded. Anyone looks good in comparison. You’re looking for a savior but, a couple of things: 1) You definitely need time to heal after an abusive relationship—perhaps make sure you are not attracted to toxic relationships and 2) You only like the new guy because he is not the old one. But you don’t like him for who he is.
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