3. You think about other people. There could be someone at work that you find attractive or your partner’s friend. When you think about them, you feel butterflies, you can’t stop thinking about them. At this moment, your partner isn’t someone you’re really interested in.
Maybe they bore you or certain characteristics irritate you or maybe you’ve grown apart. But the key thing here is that your libido is functioning normal, it’s just that you aren’t attracted to your partner.
4 You don’t know why you found them attractive. When you go back to when you first met them, you can’t remember why you found them attractive in the first place. In your head, you can’t seem to pinpoint what it was about them that made you give them a double take.
But this is where you start figuring out why you’re no longer attracted to them. You have to start somewhere, right? This takes some digging in your memory bank.
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5 Everything they say annoys you. Literally, any word that comes out of their mouth is stupid for you, even if they agree with your point. If you had it your way, you’d rather they didn’t speak at all. This is an important sign that you’re in an emotional state caused by a lack of attraction. You push them away and disconnect from their thoughts and opinions.
6 You don’t miss them. In the beginning, if they went to work for the day, you would be constantly thinking about them, missing every moment that they’re not there. But now, you could be gone for weeks and not even think about them or how they’re doing. If you don’t miss them when you’re apart, this could mean that you’re no longer attracted to them.
7 You want to spend more time apart. Usually, couples want to spend more time together, but for you, you’d prefer if you had more space. And as time passes, the amount of space you have between each other increases and increases. This isn’t a sign of someone who’s attracted to their partner, this is a sign of someone who’s looking to become single.
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