9. Don’t just court her, attract her
There are two basic models for how to approach a girl – the ‘courtship’ model and the ‘attraction’ model. When you court a woman, her natural response is to run. So instead of focusing on how to woo her, focus on sparking her attraction. Courting is what you do, what you offer, and what you give – like gifts, dinners, flowers, compliments. Attraction is how you communicate, who you are, and your masculine identity. Courting is facing the challenge…attraction is being the challenge. So start attracting…and you won’t believe how it can transform your success with women.
10. Don’t seek her approval
Most men orient themselves by seeking approval of a woman. She leads, they follow…in fact, she’s not even trying to lead, but the man tries to convince her to lead with questions and body language that seek approval. Instead, stay on course, even when she’s all over the map. When you’re trying to determine how to make her fall in love, show her you’re the kind of man who loves to be the captain of your own ship…and she’ll feel an undeniable attraction to you.
Let’s face it…there are millions of needy, desperate guys out there, so it’s important that you communicate through your behavior that you are not one of them. And the best way to do it is to let a woman know that you have a life.
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