What really impresses women?
Your pretty hair and your big muscles won’t be any use once you start to go deeper into a relationship. You will have to tackle adult problems that have an impact on how your lives will go. That is why women look for things that will affect their lives for the long term, not just for a moment.
#1 Sex appeal. This does not pertain to a sexy body or a smoldering look. Sex appeal is a person’s overall basis for sexual desire. Once a woman sees you and gets to know you better, her mind will automatically decide whether being intimate is a possibility with you.
If you don’t make her hot and bothered in any way, she will feel that sentiment and consider you a loss. Sex appeal is not something that you can work on, at least not easily. You either exude it, or it simply jumps out at you in the middle of your intimate moments together.
#2 Intelligence. High IQs are extremely attractive, but women will settle for a man who knows what he is doing. If you’re fumbling with everything life dishes out, a woman will see this as a sign of weakness. Aside from that, they want someone who can form coherent thoughts and can engage them in titillating conversation. Intelligence is a gift given to all of us, but some men still need to work on stimulating their brains rather than their bodies.
#3 Cleanliness. You can have a scruffy beard or even wear a garbage bag due to your artistic tendencies, but you can still be considered clean. A man who pays attention to hygiene is highly attractive. Women want guys who smell good, are germ-free and don’t have a filmy layer of grime on their skin.
#4 Wit. Surprisingly, a lot of guys get away with just having this one trait without the rest. Women are easily swayed by humor and tenacity. The same goes for men, by the way. This is just such an endearing aspect of a person’s personality. A witty person is engaging and is decidedly intelligent, in retrospect. Just remember that this can only take you a few steps of the way. Your wit won’t get you out of serious situations once you’re in a relationship.
#5 Potential. I cannot stress this enough. Once you mention to a woman that you’re unemployed and that you’re still figuring out what to do, they will bolt. They will disappear so fast that you won’t even see it coming.
Women want men who have the capacity to earn a living. They want a guy who has a dream or at least a goal that will generate a positive output. You can be unemployed, but with tangible plans for the future. You can have a low-paying job, but have never incurred serious debt. Women want stability and security. They want someone who won’t be a burden before the relationship has even begun.
Knowing what people can appreciate can be very helpful when you’re looking for a relationship. It’s not just teaching you how to approach a potential date. You also get a new perspective on what’s really important for women in general.
Don’t write women off as superficial and easily swayed by looks and money. If you really want to impress us, remember to respect us as equals and never underestimate our capabilities and strengths. The other things that impress us are, of course, not entirely mandatory, but they’re very much preferred.
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