4. SHOW APPRECIATION.
Showing gratitude and thanks is something we all forget to do from time to time, but if he’s trying to make small changes, acknowledging his efforts is important. When he opens your door, kills the spider lurking in your closet, checks the mailbox without you having to ask, or refills your glass of water during dinner, look him in the eye and say, “Thank you so much.” It’s as easy as that.
5) GIVE ADVICE INSTEAD OF NAGGING.
Getting a guy to change is all about tweaking your approach. Let’s say you want him to take his job more seriously so he can move up in his field. Instead of putting him down and calling him a loser, send him career-focused articles from his line of work or buy him a self-help book that will inspire him to become more successful.
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6) FIGURE OUT WHAT PART YOU PLAY.
It’s easy to point the finger, but being self-aware and understanding how you’re hindering your relationship is super important. Is there something you’re doing that’s causing him to be so defiant? Are you coming on too strong with your demands and causing him to shut down? If you can discover if you’re playing a part in his resistance to change, you’ll be one step closer to improving your relationship and getting what you want in the end.
7) LOVE HIM NO MATTER WHAT.
In the end, you have to show him you’re willing to work through your issues. We all have our faults, and he’s probably well aware of his. Showing him that you’ll stand by his side and work through his issues means he’ll be more willing to change.
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