A man shouldn’t be scared to spend his woman’s money – Nigerian lady

A life Nigerian counselor and blogger has opined that society instills in men a sense of guilt or fear around using their woman’s money.

She said that it is now accepted practice for a guy in need to express reluctance when accepting money from his partner.

The life coach added that most men always get worked up about refunding any cash their girlfriend gave them, but it should not be so.

She wrote; “I hate that men are too scared to spend their women’s money or even accept any form of financial help without immediately planning on how to return the money or it’s equivalent how did we even get here, how did we disrespect these men and make them so insecure?”

I hate that men are too scared to spend their women's money or even accept any form of financial help without immediately planning on how to return the money or it's equivalent how did we even get here, how did we disrespect these men and make them so insecure?

— A Blackwoman 🖤 (@A_Blackwoman) March 5, 2023

In reaction, @Austeiin said; Based on the engagement I’ve had with some dudes, most of these ladies end up using that moment of assistance to mock them or shade them later in the future & not many dudes have the strength to come back after their egos have been bruised. Thank for mine sha 🙏

@unclebobbybob; Davido’s cousin, nephew of Osun state’s governor, and son of a billionaire had issues with his wife. She came online to “tarnish” him that he asked her for 10k. She even dropped receipts. If your own wife that you have spent millions on can do that every man should be careful

@LouisExciting; Many women mock men badly when they are down financially. And it’s something that really gets to a man, a man loves to provide, if he has the slightest thought that the woman he is with will mock him for asking or spending her money when he does not have. He will not ask her