3. Don’t have sex with him.
Although this decision could fall under the umbrella of #2’s no-contact rule, it’s a biggie and deserves to be discussed separately. I am not going to mince words here: DO NOT—I repeat!—DO NOT sleep with your ex under any circumstances! You might be thinking that you’re on the path back to coupledom, but HE is thinking that he can officially have no-strings-attached sex with you.
Please love yourself enough to realize that your ex forfeited his right to be intimatewith you the moment he said he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.
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