‘Will you spend your life with me?’
Most women tend to be ultra sensitive and by saying this you are bound to play music on the chords of her heart. You will also affirm to her that you are not just playing around with her, but are actually looking forward to spending your entire life with her. Tell her how incomplete your life would be without her and that she has now become an indispensable part of your existence. Don’t be surprised if you find her smiling for days!
Richa Nanda, 25, who works with an advertising agency in Delhi confesses, “I had been dating a guy for the last six months. We work in the same office. Although I like him very much, I was a bit reluctant to commit to him prematurely. He recently asked me whether I would like to get married to him and it was then that I made up my mind. I was convinced that he is genuinely interested in me and would like to take the relationship further.”
Hear say: “I think this is the most difficult thing to ask a woman. It is a very important question and it means asking her for a long-term commitment. So, it is important to be sure before you speak your mind,” adds Archana.
‘What do you think about ………….?’
Ask for her opinion – whether it is about buying a new car or simply about what you should wear to office. By doing this, you are not just asserting that her opinion is important to you, but also that you respect her views. And if you are still in doubt, just remember that women love to express their views on whatever it may be – so let her speak for longer than you may want to hear and let her be the diva who knows it all!
Kanika Shrivastava, 28, who works with a telecom company in Delhi agrees, “I feel really special when my boyfriend asks for my opinion. It boosts my ego. He consults me before taking any major decisions – whether it is regarding his career or investments. I appreciate the fact that he values me not just for my looks but also my brains.”
Hear say: “It’s important for a woman to believe that she is an important part of the decision making process. Asking her for advice – no matter how big or small the decision – makes her feel special and respected,” adds Dr. Sushma.
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