How to get a girl to like you again
Before we go into details, let me share an experience of mine so you know you’re not alone.
Not too long ago, I was crazy about a girl who worked with me in the same workplace.
I didn’t know her yet, but she used to catch me staring at her now and then.
Eventually, I managed to strike a conversation by becoming her friend and things were just perfect.
She always knew I liked her. And she knew I loved talking to her for hours, especially when we both had some time to spare in between work. She liked talking to me too.
Soon, we were both going out for dinners and movies, and we used to feel an electric chemistry between us.
I made it rather obvious that I liked her. And each time I asked her out, she would laugh about it or slap me playfully on my cheek. It all seemed so perfect. She was playing hard to get and I loved the chase.
The weeks turned into months and we got closer with each other. We used to talk late into the night, and occasionally I was even able to sneak in a few kisses and cuddles after a romantic date with a bit of persuasion.
She even told me she loved me back a few times. But she never accepted my proposal to date each other. Weird, right?
One fine day, all of a sudden, things just changed. Just like that, she seemed too busy to meet me or hang out with me. She would snap at me now and then, and eventually, one eventful day, when I asked her to start dating me, she rudely told me that she could never love me back and has only ever looked at me as a friend, and nothing more. And to beat that, she asked me to stop harassing her all the time.
Well, I was heartbroken. But more than that, I was confused. I thought it was all going so well.
I thought she loved me. She did say so herself many times.
What matters here is the fact that I had to accept defeat. I knew I had lost her. She didn’t want me. It was all over as abruptly as it all began.
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