9. Be a little mysterious
You’ve heard people say you should play hard to get and others combat the idea saying it’s annoying and a waste of time, but science is here to clear the air. Playing hard to get DOES, in fact, make women more interested in you. The key is to find the balance between too aloof and too eager. If you play too hard, she’ll give up because she’ll think you aren’t interested at all.
A study published in Psychological Science found that women are more attracted to men when they aren’t sure how strong the guy’s feelings are toward them. If you hold back some of your feelings, women are more likely to keep thinking about you (to try to determine what’s up) and eventually conclude they like you since they can’t get you out of their head. Obviously this isn’t true for all women and you have to strike the perfect balance so you better start practicing now.
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