4. Leave the filler for processed meat.
Most of the time, ‘filler’ guys are the ones who allow you to play hard-to-get with your top pick. It’s okay to entertain yourself with fillers every now and then, but always have the forefront of your mind. Keep in mind, though, if you spend enough time with a ‘filler’, you may end up developing an unintentional (dare I say it?) emotional attachment. This can potentially sabotage things with your top pick.
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5. Practice ‘purposeful dating’.
Keeping a bunch of fillers around who aren’t Mr. Right can lead to dangerous consequences. If you become vulnerable — whether it’s sending a 2 AM drunk text or just craving male companionship, sex or otherwise — you may end up falling into bed with someone you don’t see a future with. While pregnancy and STDs are important to think about, you also have to consider that you’ve put this guy in the ‘filler’ category because he lacks something you desire in a mate.
Bottom line: he’s not the man you want to be with, so don’t get physical with him unless you want to go through the eventual emotional detachment, or err, uncoupling.
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