How to ask a friend out
In almost four cases out of five, when you ask a friend out, it is turned down. It’s not because you’re not attractive or fun to be with, it’s just that there was no reason for your friend to look at you as a potential date.
And when that happens, it can be very embarrassing and painful, and at the same time, your relationship with your friend can never stay the same.
It wasn’t like you asked someone out and then became friends with them.
In this case, you actually asked a friend out. And it’s a big difference.
So really, you’ve created a major flaw in this whole scenario. You never really did let your friend know you’ve got more than friends on your mind. Had you made that clear, perhaps, your friend would be able to give you a thought as a potential mate.
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