Ladies, 5 sure signs your boyfriend is a keeper

Signs your boyfriend is a keeper - Though dating isn’t necessarily easy for everyone, dating should get easier over time. If you’ve learned your lessons along the road to finding a compatible partner, you’ve probably found that the people you date over time have been getting better: More..

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4. He doesn’t flirt with other women or look over his shoulder when he’s with you. A mild degree of flirting is normal and even healthy, but flirting in front of the person you’re dating is downright nasty. This rule is so basic that we don’t need to focus on it. When you’re with your date, if you sense that he is looking around at other women or flirting with someone in front of you, you need a serious reality check. The stripe on this tiger is not going to change, period. If your date is respectful of you when the two of you are around other women, it’s safe to say that this man has boundaries, knows how to treat a date, and just might be a keeper. SEE ALSO: 7 sweet words men easily fall for because it's what they love to hear

5. He has never lashed out at you, lost his temper on you, or blamed you. The last factor to consider when determining whether your new love interest is a keeper is to evaluate how he reacts when things go wrong. Does he lose his temper, lash out, or blame you? If a man engages in any of these behaviors toward the beginning of the relationship, believe me when I say it will only get worse over time. When things go wrong, your new guy should handle himself like a grownup, meaning that he focuses more on solutions than blaming or treating someone badly. If your new guy has dealt with problems but has never turned the tables on you or lashed out, you can rest assured that another key to your romantic foundation is intact. I hope you find these factors helpful and that you use this list as a sort of mental note about whom to consider – and not consider – for a relationship. I see true love in your future if you make smart romantic decisions! CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY 15 things she wants you to tell her while making love.. See the luxurious & fabulous lifestyle of P Square and how they spend their billions (+Photos) 15 proofs that you should NEVER trust photos on social network – These photos are epic! The top 10 sexiest Yoruba actresses at the moment (With Pictures) The 5 weirdest and craziest Nigerian celebs ever (With Pics) 7 secrets women want you to know about sex – Guys, see this to become a pro! Forbes releases top 10 richest African musicians for 2015 – Number 2 will shock you! (+Pics) The 10 most shocking Nigerian celebrity transformations (Before and after pictures) 11 celebrity wives and girlfriends who make more money than their partners (With Pictures) 10 most evil men in history of the world – Their evil deeds will shock you! (With Pictures) 15 celebrity moms with the best bikini bodies – #2 will knock you off (With Pics)

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