8. Avoid Who Your Ex Associates With
If you have mutual friends in common with your ex, it’s better to avoid them if possible. Although, if you do decide to meet up with them and they are even considerate of what you are going through, your ex’s friends may still unconsciously say something about them in general conversation. As well, it can be tempting for you to ask them how your ex is doing or what is happening in their current life. It’s almost a human thing to want your ex to be just as unhappy and miserable as you are without them. Also, hanging out with people your ex knows might rekindle the feelings of how you felt when you were all together and happy. This doesn’t have to be forever, just until you’ve come to a point that you are fine with the break-up.
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