LADIES: 6 things you are doing that push men away..

Things you are doing that push men away - Don't be one of those girls. When it comes to dating disasters, do you ever wonder "What went wrong?" or "Why did he break up with me?" The truth is, most often women don't know why things fell apart, because they unknowingly played a role in it. Fortunately, David Good, a former Bachelorette contestant and winner of the reality TV show Bachelor Pad , has the answers. Good is helping women get inside the minds of men in his book The Man Code: A Woman's Guide to Cracking the Tough Guy . More..

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