Obviously, there’s a bigger chance for being hurt or for either one of you to find it hard to disconnect from the couple you used to be.
When I think back on all my exes, on all the men that I fell in love with — whether it was for a night, a month, or a year — I’m not “just friends” with any of them. Some I have no contact with and will probably never see or hear from ever again, and that’s fine — honestly it’s probably better that way. Some I have passing connections with, depending on our closeness and the level and length of relationship.
There are others whom, unfortunately, I will probably never speak to again and that makes me sad. But I know if they were ever to come back into my life again, we would never be able to be “just friends.” There’s too much history, too much sensitivity.
But I hold all my past relationships in my heart in a special place within my heart. I’m thankful for all the experiences and love that I had with them and I’m grateful to have the ability to not regret any past loves. And I don’t have to deny to my husband that I loved other people before him and that there is some part of those ex-loves that lives on in me.
After all, I wouldn’t be the woman I am today without having gone through all the relationship experiences I’ve weathered throughout my years, and the same goes for my husband and his past loves.
Embrace the past and move into the future… together.
Source: Yourtango
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