2. You keep telling yourself it’s temporary, but deep down, you know you don’t believe it.
This is because, deep down, you know he’s been training you to tolerate his stuff and it won’t get better. It’s time to leave.
3. Any request you make to improve the relationship is met with stonewalling, deflection, blaming you, delaying, anger, or being told you’re a nag.
All of these tactics are things people use when they legit don’t want to put in effort into a relationship. When they just don’t want to bother, it’s time to throw in the towel. You can’t make a relationship work by itself.
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