20 things your partner should never ask you to do – #5 and #12 are very critical

3. To Be the Family Go-Between

“Your partner should not ask you to carry messages for them to family members, kids or others as a way of resolving conflict. Their relationships are their responsibility.” -Jeanette Raymond, Ph.D., licensed psychologist, relationship expert and author of Now You Want Me, Now You Don’t!

2. To Be Like Someone Else

“Your partner should never ask you to be someone other than your authentic self. Statements such as, ‘Why can’t you be like her’ or ‘He would have never done that’ should be deal breakers.” -Williams