11. To Give Them Your Phone
“Asking to go through your cell phone is a major boundary violation. If your partner feels the need to check your cell phone then you most likely have trust issues and that has to be addressed. Trust is the foundation of a healthy and respectful relationship. If you don’t have trust then you’re probably with the wrong partner.” -Kerulis
10. To Quit Your Job
“Your partner should never ask you to relinquish financial independence against your will. This is trouble waiting to happen. If you were working when you met, you are the one to independently decide to change jobs or stay home.” -Linda F. Williams, behaviorist and relationship coach at Whose Apple Dynamic Coaching and Consulting
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