The best way to find out? Sorry to say, but you gotta swipe the phone. Ask to borrow it for a call, or just snoop when she’s out of the room. It’s an invasion of privacy, sure, but cheating is an invasion of trust. Karma’s a bitch.
#2 She’s shutting off emotionally. Pulling the silent treatment is bad in pretty much any given situation. It definitely spells bad news if your partner is refusing to discuss important topics or develops a blasé attitude towards your relationship.
Stonewalling means your girlfriend is shutting off emotionally from you and you’d best figure out why—fast. Either you have an underlying issue preventing your relationship from getting stronger, or she’s not confiding in you any longer because she’s confiding in someone else. And he may just have rippling abs.
#3 She’s stopped sharing things big and small. If you haven’t noticed, the little things are important in a healthy relationship. Some might say it’s the little things that keep that spark alive. Asking how your day was, sending good morning and goodnight texts, telling you the newest gossip at work, and swooping in for a little 1950’s hand holding are all great signs that she’s into you.
These little gestures show you that you’re on her mind, and if she isn’t doing these things anymore, odds are you aren’t. This is a bad sign that she’s sharing these big and small things with someone else.
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