3. Follow his lead.
Once you’ve opened the conversation via sext, follow where his thoughts lead. Is he asking for more details? Men are usually more visual, so bring out the descriptive words. Is your skin red with desire? Are your eyes open or closed as you give him pleasure? What color are your panties? What position are you lying in while you wait for him?
Some men are satisfied with simply being talked to, but many like to participate more. For each action he describes, respond with something that brings up the heat. Talk about how wet you’re getting. Tell him how you started with low moans that are climbing toward noticeable screams. Tell him how heavily you’re breathing…
Most of all, tell him — and show him — how much you want him.
People like to feel wanted. There’s no better aphrodisiac than feeling someone’s need for you. How they touch you. How they look at you. How they talk to you. How they kiss you.
So think about the ways you like to show your desire. With a sultry kiss? With a hint of thigh under a short skirt at the restaurant? With candles and his favorite meal?
He’ll tell you through hints when you’re actually having sex or when you’re sexting how he likes to be teased and turned on. Keep these things in mind and play with them. If he’d like you to be a little kinkier (or if YOU would like HIM to be a little kinkier), sexting is great as a safe space where you can explore those fantasies and ideas together.
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