#9 Don’t rebound. I know you’ll want to jump into another relationship right away to forget about them, but it’s not going to work. Okay, it’ll make you feel better at that moment, but the minute you’re alone with your thoughts, your feelings will come rushing back to you. Give yourself a little time before getting involved with someone else.
#10 Get away. Maybe this person is your neighbor or you work with them. If that’s the case, then why not get away for a little bit? Go on vacation somewhere, anywhere. This will help you take your mind off of them at least for a little bit. If they’re constantly around you, remove them from your visibility.
#11 Again, give it time. Listen, I can tell you to rush and meet someone else the next day but it’s not going to work. You’re going to have this feeling that this new person isn’t like the one you lost, and the void won’t close. Instead, what you need to do is give yourself all the time in the world to recover. You need time!
No one said it was going to be easy but that doesn’t mean it’s not possible. Now that you know how to lose feelings for someone, you’re going to need to work on it.
NATASHA IVANOVIC, Lovepanky
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