25 lies to STOP believing if you want a good man (And a good life)

4. That it’s ever OK to hand over a chunk of self-esteem in order to be “nice.” Then you’re just being mean to yourself. How is that OK?

5. That someone else’s life has anything at all to do with you. Her engagement,boyfriend, amazing bucket-list trip, kick-ass job, pretty baby … it’s all great for her, and has zero to do with you. Know where their life ends and yours begins.