25 lies to STOP believing if you want a good man (And a good life)

6. That Christian Gray was “sexy.” Think of me as your best friend on a bar stool being honest with you after two drinks. I know you love him, but the truth is that Christian Gray is a narcissistic, controlling, wealthy, emotionally closed-off, psychologically abusive, boundary pusher with nice eyes and good ties. And he has nothing to do with real BDSM. I’m sorry. I love you.