7. That “good on paper” means he’s the one. Dating someone with whom you can “check the boxes” is nice in theory, but when you don’t feel the “thing,” you don’t feel it.
The idea that we should “settle” so we can have someone in time to procreate, or walk down the aisle close to the age we’re expected to, is very dangerous. And it’s deceptive; that great-on-paper guy deserves to be with someone who actually just thinks he’s great.
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