15 Signs he’s just keeping you as a side chick – Ladies, see this now!

7. Spontaneity is not allowed.

Call him out of the blue, say you’re in the area and would like to see him. If he freaks out or makes an excuse, that’s a red flag. He wants to date you on his own terms and when you step outside of that, it causes him to panic.

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8. You don’t know where he lives.

If you have been dating for a while, you should know where he lives. You may not have been inside, but you should have the option to visit. A man who keeps his residence a secret, is hiding who lives inside of it.