5. “You can keep me hangin’ on.”
You can help your guy last longer with a couple of simple moves. First, encourage him to do Kegels. Just like you, he can gain greater control over his orgasms and increase their intensity by strengthening the muscles in his perineum—the area between the scrotum and the anus.Give him a tutorial: Tell him to contract those muscles, hold the position for 10 counts, and repeat.
Second, if you’re in the heat of the moment and need to delay his big finish, try the time-tested squeeze technique. When your guy feels he is close to ejaculation, he should withdraw. Then—and here’s where you get involved—grip his penis just below the head with your thumb and forefinger, and squeeze forcefully. This will delay his urge to ejaculate. The amount of pressure needed varies among men, but don’t be afraid to give him a good grab—his erect penis can take it. Once the urge has passed, wait a minute or two before getting back to business. It’s possible he’ll partially lose his erection after the squeeze, but it’s not a common problem. And if it happens, don’t panic. His full erection will return shortly, especially when you give him a little attention.
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