11. Savor the wait
For those who are running out of patience, please remember this: You can choose to allow yourself to feel desperate and alone, or you can choose to feel happy and blessed.
One way to adopt the “happy and blessed” mindset is to understand the ancient Japanese aesthetic known as wabi sabi which honors all things old, worn, weathered, imperfect, and impermanent. In fact, it seeks to find “beauty and perfection in the imperfections.”
Rather than “enduring” the wait — and the perceived imperfection of being single — you can adopt a wabi sabi perspective and really enjoy your last days of being single. You can relish the journey and joyfully anticipate your soulmate’s arrival. One of the best ways to “savor the wait” is to take yourself out on “special dates” doing things that most nourish and nurture YOU!
Think of it this way: when the seeds of a flower have been planted in the ground and the first leaves begin to sprout, the gardener does not tug on the leaves every day to make the plant grow fast. He trusts that Mother Nature will play her role and then, when the time is right, the flower will blossom. Like a gardener, you planted a seed and invited love to unfold in your life.
Here’s what I know for sure: The Soulmate Secret works.
It works for everyone of every age. It just requires that you do invest a little time, energy, intention and attention. Isn’t spending the rest of your life with the love of your life worth that investment?
Source: Yourtango
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