5 things you must do before sleeping with a man – #2 and #5 is very important

3. Answer the question “Is he just hot or is he a hubby?”

If you’re looking for your husband or life companion, you have to approach dating with as much maturity and objectivity as you can muster. Muster it, girlfriend, and decide if he’s just charming and makes you tingle or if he has real depth and relationship potential.

If he’s all tingle and no substance, I say slow the heck down or even run for the hills. If you have sex with this man, odds are you will fall for him … because that’s what we do. And then you’rehooked. I’d rather you wait and get hooked after you decide a man is good, kind, and interested.