5 things you must do before sleeping with a man – #2 and #5 is very important

4. Follow the Dalai Lama.

In his book, The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living, the Dalai Lama talks about pleasure versus happiness. His advice: always ask yourself “Will this bring me happiness?” I try to follow this in my life in general; it’s a powerful guide to making good decisions. It’s especially handy when you’re considering getting physical with a man.

Stop and ask yourself: will this make me feel good and make me happy? Because you know from your many experiences that something that feels good now will not necessarily bring you happiness. (You know what I’m talkin’ about.)