5. Find Out His Kinks And Fetishes
If you truly want to turn your man on in a way that no other woman can, then you need to find out his kinks and fetishes. But for guys, these are often something really personal and private. Guys are usually very nervous and shy about revealing them to anyone, so if you surprise him and directly ask him what really turns him on and what his kinks are, then he might try to dodge the question. So my first advice is to avoid asking him about them directly. SEE ALSO: Ladies, 7 smart ways to keep your vagina young & fresh!
Instead, I suggest you be indirect in your questioning. Wait until you’re both in bed. Right before sex is the perfect time.
Start by telling your man about some of your tamer kinks and turn ons. If could be him being very aggressive in bed or him going down on you. Then, if he seems to like hearing about them, tell him about your deeper fantasies and turn ons. After talking about your kinks for a while, it’s time to find out his.
Rather than asking him really directly about what his turn ons are, be indirect. For example:
- “I bet you love it when I’m dominant and in control in the bedroom.”
- “Do you prefer me going down on you or using my hands?”
Once he starts opening up, he’ll hopefully volunteer his turn ons to you. But, if he doesn’t open up, then start to explore further with more indirect questions like these:
- “I have a sneaking suspicion that you’d like to see me with another girl.”
- “I bet that you’d get really turned on by doing it in public.”
–YourTango
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