2. Adapt and adjust.
The list of sexy things to say to your boyfriend below is nothing more that, a list of examples. If you are not quite as kinky, then don’t feel like you have to use them.
Instead, try to adapt them to slightly less kinky and sexy phrases. But if you are kinkier and you are getting a great response from your man and you want to try even sexier things, then adapt and start trying to form your own.
3. Talking sexy or dirty is just the seasoning.
Man, this can get frustrating. I often get emails from students asking, “What did I do wrong, Sean? I’ve been talking sexy to my boyfriend non-stop. At first it worked great, but now it seems to be annoying him. What happened?”
It’s very simple what happened; they went overboard. Instead of using sexy talk as a seasoning or spice for their relationship and sex life, they tried to use it as the main course. Imagine eating only spices for your meals. You’d probably be dead in a week!
Now let’s learn some sexy things to text or say to your man!
1. “You look so hot in jeans and a T-shirt.” (Or whatever clothes you like.)
2. “I can’t wait to just get you home.”
3. “I need to feel you on me so bad.”
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