The Move
Brrr… the plunge into the icy Atlantic is scary. It’s bone freezing cold and you wonder if you can survive. Even the charming rat, Jack, couldn’t do much as he swam in the Atlantic when Titanic sank. What chances do you have? Plenty.
First of all, you’re not in the Atlantic, nor do you have Leo trying to woo the same girl. He’s too busy running behind polar caps these days. That’s a good start for you. Making the move to talk to a woman can seem like a very daunting task, but if you could master the earlier arts of the perfect male, talking should be a breeze already, what with all the oozing confidence.
I’m not going to elaborate here, this is a very natural step that is as unique as you can be. You could do just about anything here, walk up to this person, even if she is with her posse of giggling girls, who already know why you’re approaching them, or you could step in closer and wait for the moment when she’s alone (which usually never happens. How wicked, isn’t it?).
Here, again, your words don’t really matter, it’s all mostly in your tone and your composure, and that wickedly sweet smile of yours!
Even if the damsel is proud and pretends like she isn’t interested in knowing you, you can still go on with your words, adding humor and a line that makes her understand that you can’t imagine leaving the place without knowing her, and spending a few moments to get to know her better. Be calm, however much you feel the situation slipping away from you. If you want to pester her to talk to you, even if she declines it, do so deftly coating your words with a lot of charm and elegance.
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