#17 People who are scared of being abandoned will avoid being controlled by texting habits in order to have a semblance of control over their relationships. If someone has abandonment issues, you’re stuck with one or two outcomes: someone who avoids texting or someone who will text you incessantly. Either way, the main goal is to take control over the situation.
#18 The more you use texting as a weapon, the more unattached your partner gets. Every time you use texting to start a fight, your partner withdraws further from you emotionally. #19 People are dissatisfied with their relationships when texting affects their other relationships or responsibilities. If texting is putting a damper on other important things like work and your other relationships—like with your family and friends—it will significantly decrease your partner’s overall satisfaction with your relationship.
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