He stops complimenting you. Now, after the honeymoon phase is over, the compliments will die down a little bit, but they should still be there. Your boyfriend should never stop complimenting you altogether. If he does, it shows he’s taking you for granted.
He never does anything nice for you. This is especially true if he used to do a lot of nice things for you but doesn’t do anything anymore. If he won’t even get you a glass of water when he’s getting one for himself, his appreciation for you is long gone.
What to do when your boyfriend is taking you for granted
Have you decided that he definitely is taking you for granted? Well, lucky for you, there are a few things you can do about that.
#1 Confront him about it. You need to talk it out. Communication is super important – especially with this issue in a relationship. Ask him what’s going on and why he never appreciates what you do for him.
#2 Stop doing nice things for him. You can’t expect him to realize what he’s doing wrong if you continue to shower him with kindness. Stop doing nice things. Make him see what it feels like. If he brings up the fact that your behavior has changed, talk about how you’re only treating him the way he treats you.
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