5. Succeed at your work.
This typically (but not always) goes hand-in-hand with making more money. Success is sexy, even for men who are too scared to date women with their own jobs. The truth is that it shows that you’re a winner, and people like to win.
6. Have your friends back you up.
This is a particularly good way to make guys who might not have been as popular as you wonder if they screwed up. Popularity is one of those things that just helps every little facet of your life, including breakups. If they see a lot of people coming to your defense or coming to hang out with you, their choice to leave will hurt that much more over time.
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