#6 When to have sex. If you and your partner agreed to have a sexual relationship, it’s understandable that they would want to do it regularly. Sometimes, however, you won’t want to have sex and your partner should accept that. Forcing, manipulating, or guilting you into having sex is tantamount to rape.
It’s your body, and you have the right to decide how and when to use it. If the frequency of sex *whether it’s too often or too infrequent* is raising alarm bells, you should discuss this with your partner.
#7 When to get married. Although some people might claim that getting married isn’t such a big deal, it still is for a lot of people. You are legally binding yourself to one person for the rest of your life *or until a judge allows you to separate*. It is not a decision that should be taken lightly, which means that you and your partner must decide on it separately, before you can agree to it together.
How to talk to your partner about your decisions
The best way to decide on something together is to set aside some time to discuss everything that you need to tackle. You can decide on the things we mentioned above on your own, but you should always run it by your partner, anyway.
Everything that happens in your life affects both of you, but some decisions are yours alone. You just have to share it with your partner first. You need to hear each other out before making any drastic decisions. This way, you’ll know how the other feels and can make your decisions honestly and clearly.
By DANIELLE ANNE, Lovepanky
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