3. Seriously, Just Let Go
You really aren’t getting anything out of sex, if you are constantly holding back. According to Cosmopolitan magazine, if you’re constantly thinking about if you are doing it right, how you look, are you too quiet, should I talk dirty, and so forth, then you never will totally be in that moment and chances are both of you won’t be fully enjoying yourselves. If you want that unbelievable, mind -blowing moment, then you need to act freely, not constricted in bed. Turn down the lights so you’re not as body-conscious, turn the phone off to avoid interruption, do whatever you need to do in order to be the moment. And remember, don’t fake it. Faking that you are enjoying yourself when you aren’t, will actually be putting more pressure on you the next time and things could get awkward.
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