What should women do instead?
Research suggests that women should be happy with themselves, before they try to get into a relationship. This is because they are more prone to act on the items mentioned above, because of their various insecurities and self-esteem issues.
Unfortunately, that rarely works. Women want results, and they want it now. Working on yourself takes a lot of time, and most people don’t have the drive or energy to do so. Still, if you don’t at least try, you will never succeed in your relationship goals.
The only way you can make a relationship work is if you forget about all your hang-ups and just live in the moment. Stop trying to change your partner. Stop trying to change yourself – at least the good parts anyway. Even if it feels difficult, there’s no one stopping you from changing the way you think.
Forget the mind games, the tests of love and the fiery hoops of relationships. Ask for what you want. Demand it. Make sure that it’s within reason, and that your partner is willing to make the same sacrifices as you are. Be aggressive in getting what you deserve, but be understanding when it comes to other people’s needs.
Sooner or later, you’ll see that your relationships have become better off for it. Men will adore you. Women will admire you. Why? Because you’re honest and sincere. Like I said, those are the only things you need to get everything you want and need in life.
Now that you know what not to do, you can start looking for Mr. Right without having to play games. Don’t be afraid to show how you really feel. Guys will appreciate your honesty and will be more likely to return the sentiment.
– DANIELLE ANNE, lovepanky
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