So what changed your mind?
For years, I was walking like a living corpse because I could not continue to host the annual event for Vi rgins. It is unfortunate.
To see a Vi rgin in the modern day Nigeria is not common. How do you ascertain their Vi rginity?
A gynaecologist, Dr. Naheem-Deen Ekemode, who has practised for more than 40 years, was doing that for us. Within a second, he will know whether someone is a Vi rgin or not but some parents started frowning about it.
But are there still Vi rgins amongst ladies of marriageable age?
I have Vi rgins even in my home. My own daughter got married as a Vi rgin at 29. There are many Vi rgins in this country but they are shy to come out because their wayward friends mock at them. They call them fools because they want to spoil their lives before marriage and there is nothing more interesting and good one would be proud of than keeping one’s Vi rginity. In fact, God loves it because I heard the voice several times, urging me to go and encourage Vi rgins and I will not stop it till my demise.
Most men complain that marrying a Vi rgin gives them concern. To them, it is like relating with somebody who cannot satisfy them s exually.
They are saying it because they are in doubt of the authenticity of our claim that there are still Vi rgins. They know that if they marry a Vi rgin, they have assurance that they are marrying somebody who has not tampered with her womb or who has not contracted s exually transmitted diseases. You cannot compare used engine with a brand new one. Men are not realistic. All these they are talking that it is difficult to get Vi rgins is not true. Some men will use these girls, de-flower some of them and at the end of the day, they will jilt them and run after another girl.
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