Relationship mistakes: Sex is an important part of a relationship and one would assume that because you are in a relationship, you are getting sex on the regular. What most people fail to realize is that even in a committed relationship, sex is not guaranteed, and this lack of sex can be for several reasons. A relationship can become boring, complacent and even toxic which forces the parties involved to pull away from what was once a healthy exciting place in their lives. More..
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Unfortunately, this is not the case for all sexless relationships; some women really want to get down and dirty with their men but are being forced to re-evaluate their decision due to physical and mental constraints. Fortunately for guys, a sexless relationship is more common than most would believe and it is usually something that can be fixed after a friendly chat, habit changes or even the ultimate decision to quit while you’re ahead. What is important to remember in this scenario is that sex is not a guarantee and that we must always be striving to improve or at least maintain ourselves when we are in a committed relationship; we do not only get up for us in the morning anymore, we get up for our partners who have to interact with us every day whether we are happy or not. Has a partner ever withheld sex from you? If so, why? Comment below after you enjoy the article.12. She Is Over You
Sometimes it is just not meant to be, most relationships are there to prepare you for your ultimate partner. Yes, break-ups suck and yes we all try to hang on to something that we know is doomed to fail; when she withholds sex, it could be one of the things on this list or it could just be that you two are no longer compatible. Do not beat yourself up though, someone else will come along and in the meantime you get to flirt, date and have as much emotionless sex as possible (if that is your thing).
11. You Haven’t Put A Ring On It
Dr Laura advises that you never shack up; however, if you do, make sure that you at least have some intentions to marry her. It is selfish to have a girl waiting around for you to marry her because you have gotten comfortable, if this is the case than you cannot blame her for not wanting to have sex with you. There is only a small window of time until she starts to feel like you are taking her for granted; so if you want to continue to reap the benefits of being in a sexual relationship, then maybe you should consider marrying her considering the amount of time you have been together, of course. Honestly, you are lucky that this is not back in the day when everyone waited till after marriage to lose it.
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