Ways to become very good in bed – She’s DYING for you to read this. Let’s face it … our current sexual education system is completely broken. Between rom-coms, pornography, and the half-assed ‘talk’ we get from our well-meaning parents, the sexual information we learn throughout our formative years leaves much to the imagination.
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The effect? Generations of unaware lovers are being spread across the world.
And this. Has to. Stop.
Over the past decade I have feverishly studied human sexuality. You name it… anything fromsexual technique and Kegel exercises, to Tantra and Taoism – I’ve studied (and implemented) it.
Through my research, I specifically wanted to know what made a good sexual partner great.And not just in theory, but in practice.
Here are my top seven highest leverage tips for men to become better in bed for the women they love.
1. Presence, eye contact, and attentiveness
No matter what sexual technique you learn to employ, it will all be wasted unless you can learn to be present with the person in front of you.
But what does presence actually mean? It can sound like a bit of a new age-y intangible concept to a lot of guys.
Presence means responding and calibrating to what your partner needs moment to moment. It means, instead of burying your face over her shoulder during missionary, you pull back and share ample eye contact. It means paying attention to the person in bed with you.
Don’t just ‘run the script’ of the sexual technique that you learned in Maxim, or from your equally uninformed guy friends. Drop into your body, pay attention to the experience of the person you’re playing with, and make your lovemaking into a mutually pleasurable dance.
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