If you can't get past these 5 disagreements, your relationship is Doomed! | Page 2 of 5

Sure, a little banter with bae can be totally normal. But have you ever wondered what kinds of disagreements will eventually put a relationship six-feet under? Here, five experts share the tiffs that almost always spell bad news for a couple if an understanding can't be reached. More.. Check out 13 extremely hilarious quotes by President Robert Mugabe Mother-Daughter Duos: Top celebrity mums and their pretty daughters Top 10 best polytechnics in Nigeria – See which is number 1! (+Photos) 10 successful Nigerians that are not university graduates – This will shock many! (+Photos) 1. Having Kids "Whether or not to have a baby may seem like a simple conversation to have as you get serious in a relationship. 'I want kids. Do you want kids?' But, sometimes it's not that simple. There are definitely times when people's decisions about whether or not to have kids (or when to have them) changes, and that can put tremendous strain on the relationship. For instance, if a couple moves into marriage believing they will remain childfree by choice, and a few years later, one of their perspectives changes, that can be a make-or-break argument for that marriage. For the partner who still does not want kids, it can feel like a betrayal of trust that their partner has now changed their agreement. To the partner who changed their mind, it can feel oppressing to stay in a marriage with a partner who would not want to have a child with them and 'deprive' them of that life choice.” —Colleen Mullen, Psy. D. 2. Infidelity "Cheating is always a deadly wound to any relationship. You or your significant other may try to make it work because of a) remembering the early foundation of love the two of you shared, b) the fear of starting over, c) financial matters, or d) the kids. However, the truth of the matter is that when one partner has been so deeply hurt, they almost can never go back to their old feelings. Yes, they may be able to forgive for a time, but they never truly forget. The buried secret between the couple is always there to haunt them, and somehow, some way, some day—the relationship will sadly come to a close.” —Audrey Hope, host of Ask Audrey Now 3. Overbearing In-Laws "When one partner starts going off on another partner's family, it's never good. It sparks something in the other partner that—even if they agree, and they themselves have said the same thing—[makes them want to come to the] defense for their family member. Sometimes it's fine initially, but it's like a bell that can't be un-rung. And when the one partner makes up with their family member (which they almost always will) it'll still be in the air that the other partner said all those nasty things.” — Molly Lizzio, licensed marriage and family therapist 4. Different Religious Beliefs "Any religious differences that one person can’t accept or compromise on can cause a tear in the relationship."— Toni Coleman, L.C.S.W. and CEO of Consum-mate.com 5. “It’s Fine” "Any disagreement that ends in, 'It's fine,' is the worst. Oh, it's so not fine, whether you are rolling your eyes or pretending everything is OK, the inability to express how you feel or what you need is a major predictor for a breakup.” —Emily Roberts, licensed professional counselor Source CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates

If you can’t get past these 5 disagreements, your relationship is Doomed!

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