LADIES: 4 Reasons why you need to stop playing mind games with men

2. You play games because — well — it’s what you’ve ALWAYS done.

Even if it hasn’t worked so well in the past, playing hard to get may seem to be what you “just do” in a relationship, so you keep on doing it. As with many habits, you might not even realize you’re making yourself inaccessible and distant.

Or maybe you’re consciously choosing to play hard to get because you’re nervous about being the real you with the person you’re interested in. Being vulnerable feels scary and so you stick with what you’ve always done, despite the risks.