3. You’re afraid there’s no other way to get someone interested.
Fear is the driver of so many unhealthy habits. Many people play hard to get because — deep down inside — they believe that it’s the only way to succeed at love.
Maybe you’re motivated to ignore a text or to talk to someone else on the other side of the room at a party because you worry that you’re somehow not enough or that this is the only way to get the other person’s attention.
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